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Do gold buyers melt your gold before you accept the offer?

A reputable buyer does not. Purity is tested with a non-destructive XRF assay, the items are held intact, and nothing goes near a furnace until you have accepted a written offer. But a minority of buyers write themselves permission to process items on receipt, and once metal has been melted no return is possible. Here is how to check any buyer’s position before you post.

By Rocco Clayfield, founder of GoldPaid (GOLDPAID LTD) · Published · updated

Do gold buyers melt your gold before you accept the offer?A reputable buyer does not. Standard practice is a non-destructive XRF assay, a written itemised offer, and the items held intact until you accept, with a free tracked return if you decline. At GoldPaid nothing is melted, cut, unset or sent for refining until you accept in writing. Some buyers’ terms allow items to be “melted, refined or processed on receipt”, so read the terms, or ask the question in writing, before you post.

The straight answer

Last reviewed: 2 September 2026. This guide describes standard practice across the UK postal gold trade and GoldPaid’s own hold policy. Terms vary between buyers, so the only authority on what a specific buyer may do with your items is that buyer’s own terms and conditions, read before you post.

No reputable gold buyer melts anything before you have accepted an offer, because nothing about a fair valuation requires it. Purity is established with an X-ray fluorescence (XRF) assay, which reads the composition of the alloy without cutting, scratching or removing material, and weight comes from a scale. Both measurements leave the item exactly as it arrived. Melting belongs to refining, the step after a sale has completed, not to valuation. See XRF testing explained for how the assay works. The commitment that nothing is cut, unset or melted before you accept is part of the published process for selling gold by post.

The reason the question is still worth asking is that a minority of buyers write terms permitting items to be “melted, refined or processed on receipt”. Under wording like that, the offer you receive is not really an offer, because the alternative to accepting it, having your items back as they were, no longer exists. The clause is visible in the small print before you post, which is exactly where to look for it.

Not sure how any of this applies to your own items? Send a photo on WhatsApp and ask, call 07944 014111 (8am to 9pm, 7 days a week), or ask for a free prepaid Royal Mail Special Delivery label. Whichever you pick: nothing is posted until you decide, your parcel is tracked and signed for, the written offer follows the XRF assay, the return is free if you decline, and we aim to pay by Faster Payments within one working hour of your acceptance.

GoldPaid’s hold policy: nothing is processed until written acceptance

When a parcel arrives at GoldPaid it is logged against the description given on WhatsApp, and the items stay identifiable as yours rather than being pooled with other sellers’ parcels. Each piece is separated by carat, weighed to two decimal places of a gram, and XRF-assayed at our Bristol office, and the written offer itemises the purity found, the weight and the rate used for every piece, so the working is visible. Until you reply to that offer, your items sit exactly as they arrived: nothing is melted, cut, unset or sent onward for refining until you have accepted in writing.

Decline, and the same pieces you sent come back on a free tracked return; Royal Mail cover may be available up to £2,500 depending on the postal method and cover level used. Accept, and we aim to pay by Faster Payments within one working hour of your acceptance, and only then do the items move into the refining stream. The method is set out on how we value gold and what happens if I decline the offer.

Why this question matters more than it sounds

Almost everything else that can go wrong in a postal gold sale is correctable. A low offer can be declined, a delayed parcel usually reappears, a disputed fee can be argued and refunded. Melting is the one irreversible step. Once an item has been through a furnace, a dispute stops being about your items and becomes a dispute about money, and for an inherited ring or a piece with any story attached, money is not the same thing. A “no obligation” valuation only means something while the items still exist in their original form.

There is a consumer-protection angle too. What happens to your items before acceptance is material information, and UK unfair-trading rules treat material information given unclearly, untimely or inconspicuously as omitted. A right to process items before acceptance that surfaces only deep in the terms, especially when paired with a clause treating silence as acceptance, is the pattern to walk away from. That is general information rather than legal advice; the wider warning signs are covered in red flags when choosing a postal gold buyer, and the escalation routes in what to do if something goes wrong.

When melting is legitimate, and when another route is better

Melting itself is not the villain. It is the normal end of the scrap trade: after you accept and are paid, sold items are consolidated and sent to a refiner, recovered back to fine gold and returned to the market. That loop is where scrap value comes from. The only question that matters is sequence, whether the furnace comes after your written acceptance or before it.

Two honest caveats. First, if there is any chance you will want an item back later, do not sell it to anyone, on any terms; acceptance is the point of no return with every buyer, however reputable. Second, postal selling means you cannot watch the test happen. If being present matters to you, a local jeweller with a counter XRF machine is the better route, and if a piece may be worth more than its metal, a signed designer item, a rare coin, a genuine antique, show it to a specialist dealer or auction house before you sell it to anyone.

What to ask any buyer before you post

  1. “Are my items kept intact and identifiable until I have accepted in writing?” The answer should be a plain yes, in writing, not a reference to the terms.
  2. “How do you test?” XRF removes nothing. Acid touchstone testing scratches a trace of metal from the piece; not a disaster on scrap, worth knowing on anything you may want back.
  3. “If I decline, do the same items come back, tracked, and who pays?” A return that costs you money, or arrives untracked, is a cost attached to saying no.
  4. “Does anything in your terms allow processing before acceptance, or treat silence as acceptance?” Either clause alone is a reason to stop; the two together are a reason to walk away.
Wording in the termsWhat it actually means
“Items may be melted, refined or processed on receipt”An intact return is impossible from the moment the parcel is opened. The offer is effectively take-it-or-take-it.
“Items are held intact until you accept our offer”What you want to see. Pair it with a free tracked return and the phrase means what it says.
“No response within X days is deemed acceptance”Silence hands over your property. Diarise the deadline, or better, use a buyer whose offers require an active yes.
“Non-destructive XRF testing”The assay reads purity without removing material. Items can be tested and still returned exactly as sent.

A buyer who answers all four plainly, in writing, has told you most of what you need to know about how they trade. GOLDPAID LTD answers them on WhatsApp on 07944 014111 before you send anything, and the answers match this page.

What to do next

If you want to know what your own pieces are worth, start with a photo rather than a parcel. Send one on WhatsApp and we will tell you plainly what can and cannot be judged from an image. If you go ahead, the items are XRF-tested on arrival and you receive a written offer setting out the purity found, the weight and the rate used. Decline it and the tracked return costs you nothing. Accept it and we aim to pay by Faster Payments within one working hour of your acceptance.

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Common questions

Does testing remove or damage any gold?

XRF testing does not. It reads the alloy’s composition with X-rays and removes nothing, which is why items can be assayed and still returned exactly as sent. Acid touchstone testing, still used at some counters, scratches a trace of metal onto a stone; the loss is tiny but real. Ask which method a buyer uses before posting.

Does GoldPaid melt gold before I accept the offer?

No. Items are logged on arrival, kept identifiable as yours, weighed and XRF-assayed, and held intact until you accept the written offer. Nothing is melted, cut, unset or sent for refining before written acceptance, and declined items come back on a free tracked return.

Can I change my mind after accepting an offer?

Treat written acceptance as final. Once you accept, payment is made and the items become the buyer’s property and move towards refining, which cannot be reversed. If you accept in error, contact the buyer immediately; whether an item can still be recovered depends on whether processing has begun, and no buyer can promise it has not. The full position, including why no cooling-off period applies to a seller and how long the practical window really is, is set out in can I change my mind after accepting a gold offer.

What if a buyer has already melted my items without my acceptance?

Read their terms first: if the terms permitted processing on receipt, the dispute becomes one about value rather than the items themselves. Put a complaint in writing, keep your pre-posting photographs and the offer correspondence, and follow the escalation routes in our guide to what to do if something goes wrong. This is general information, not legal advice.

How long will a buyer hold my items while I decide?

It varies, so ask. Offers are calculated at the rate on the day, so a written offer holds only for a limited time, and a reasonable buyer will re-run the figure free of charge rather than let it lapse. What matters is that the items stay intact while you decide, and that silence is never treated as acceptance.

Why do gold buyers melt gold at all?

Because scrap value comes from refining. After a completed sale, items are consolidated and sent to a refiner, where the gold is recovered back to fine metal and returned to the market. That is the legitimate end of the trade; the only issue is a buyer who starts it before you have said yes.

Not the question you had? The full GoldPaid FAQ covers the rest, from postal cover and ID checks to what happens if you decline the offer.

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