After divorce / separation

Sell gold jewellery after a divorce: discreet postal service

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Rough estimates where possible; your final offer follows inspection.
No obligation. Free tracked return if you decline. We aim to pay within one working hour of acceptance.

GoldPaid buys wedding rings, engagement rings, anniversary jewellery and unwanted gifts by post after a separation or divorce. There is no shop visit, no conversation in person and no question about why you are selling. Each piece is XRF-tested and weighed, the written offer usually follows on the working day the parcel arrives, and payment is by bank transfer only if you accept.

Send a photo on WhatsApp for a rough estimate where possible, or arrange to post your items for assessment. We confirm our purchase offer after inspection, and you decide whether to accept. Final offers depend on inspection, item weight, purity, hallmarks, stones, non-gold components, condition and the live precious-metal market.

Free Special Delivery label, usually within 30 minutesPurity tested in-house by X-ray (XRF)
Will you ask me why I am selling?No. The reason for sale is your business, not ours. We test, weigh, photograph and value the piece, and you decide.

Please send us photos on WhatsApp, and we will help you.

Send photos of your items and any hallmarks. We give a rough estimate where possible; your final offer follows inspection. You do not need to arrange postage to ask us a question.

We arrange postage with you after our conversation.

Before you post

The questions people ask before they send anything, answered here rather than at the end of the page.

Can I ask first?
Yes. WhatsApp a photo to 07944 014111, 8am to 9pm, every day, and we reply with an idea of what it is worth. Nothing is posted until you decide.
Is it safe to post?
Your parcel travels by Royal Mail Special Delivery, tracked and signed for. Royal Mail cover may be available up to £2,500 depending on the postal method and cover level used. GoldPaid can confirm the appropriate postal option before you post.
How is it tested?
Your parcel is signed for on arrival and opened at our Bristol office, where each item is weighed and tested with an XRF analyser, an X-ray test that reads the metal without marking it. Your written offer lists each piece with its weight, purity and figure.
What if I say no?
We return everything by Royal Mail Special Delivery at our cost. Saying no costs you nothing.
When am I paid?
Only if you accept the written offer. We aim for the money to reach your bank within 24 hours of posting. We use Royal Mail Special Delivery Guaranteed, test your items promptly on receipt, and aim to pay by Faster Payments within one working hour of your acceptance. The 24-hour target is an aim, not a guarantee: it depends on posting before the local cut-off, the applicable working-day delivery service, prompt acceptance, completed identity checks and bank processing.
How long does an offer last?
Each written offer is dated and holds for a limited time, because metal prices move. If it lapses, we re-run it at that day’s rate.
Who am I dealing with?
GOLDPAID LTD, registered in England and Wales, run by founder Rocco Clayfield. Our office is at Unit 217, Bristol Business Centre, 179 Whiteladies Road, Clifton, Bristol BS8 2AG. We are postal only, so there is no counter to visit. Before we pay, we ask every seller for a photo of their passport or driving licence.

Final offers depend on inspection, item weight, purity, hallmarks, stones, non-gold components, condition and the live precious-metal market.

Tangled gold chains and thin gold rings on a slate slab

Short answer

Selling gold after a separation is often as much about discretion as about money, and the postal route gives you both. We buy wedding rings, engagement rings, anniversary jewellery and unwanted gifts with no shop visit, no in-person conversation and no questions about your circumstances. A free prepaid Royal Mail label takes the items to us, the written offer usually follows on the working day they arrive, and you accept for payment by bank transfer or decline for a free return.

Why the postal route fits the divorce scenario

Selling gold after a separation is not the same transaction as selling unwanted jewellery on a casual basis. There may be emotional weight to the piece, there may be questions of timing, finalising things before a court date, freeing up cash during a difficult month, and there is almost always a preference for keeping the whole process private rather than walking into a high-street gold buyer on a Saturday afternoon.

The postal route addresses all three. Your parcel is opened and tested at our Bristol office, which is not a shop and never needs a visit from you. There is no in-person conversation, no questions on the doorstep, no audit trail of you walking into a shop. The only people who know the transaction took place are you, your bank statement and us.

Wedding rings, engagement rings and stone-set pieces

Wedding bands are usually 9ct or 18ct gold; some are platinum or palladium, both of which we also buy (send a photo first for a platinum or palladium band). The XRF test on arrival confirms the carat and the weight is taken to two decimal places. The written offer shows the figure for each band directly.

Engagement rings are different. The central stone, whether a diamond, sapphire, ruby or emerald, usually accounts for far more of the value than the gold itself. If the central stone is a diamond above 0.30ct, the most realistic route is often a specialist diamond resale service, not a precious-metal buyer, and we will say so openly on the written offer if it applies to your piece. For costume diamonds, smaller stones, or stones whose value sits well below the gold value, the gold-only valuation is usually the cleaner sale.

Engraved wedding bands and personalised inscriptions are not removed before melt. Once you accept the offer, the piece is melted into stock; there is no possibility of recovering the engraving. That cut-off is the moment to be sure, and the no-obligation route exists precisely so you can look at the figure first and decide separately whether to proceed.

Privacy and what we record on file

The only personal data we hold against a transaction is the name, address, bank-transfer details and the photo ID we ask every seller for. There is no record of why you are selling, no questionnaire about your circumstances, no link in our internal records to a divorce, a separation or a relationship change.

The Royal Mail label is generated against your address; the parcel arrives at a neutral business address. The XRF certificate, written offer, weight log and bank-transfer receipt are issued in your name only and are not shared with any third party. We can set the payment reference to anything neutral you ask for, but the payer name on your statement will still show as GOLDPAID LTD. Tell us the reference you would like when you reply to the offer.

The "I want to think about it" route

Some people post the parcel, receive the written offer, and then sit with the figure for several days before deciding. That is fine: the parcel is held intact, and nothing is melted, while you think. The written offer is dated and holds for a limited time, because metal prices move; if it lapses before you reply, it is re-run against the current market and nobody chases you for an answer.

If the gold market moves materially during that window we issue a refreshed offer (up or down) with the new figure explicit, so the figure on the page always reflects the current gold market rather than a stale one. If at any point you decide to keep the piece, you say so and the parcel comes back fully tracked at our cost. There is no fee for the time taken to think it through.

The process, step by step

  1. Get in touch and show us. A WhatsApp photo of your jewellery is all we need to give you a rough estimate before anything is posted.
  2. Get your free label. We send a prepaid Royal Mail Special Delivery label, fully tracked. If you have no printer, a QR code for the counter does the same job.
  3. Send it at your own pace. Wrap it in any padded envelope and hand it in at a Post Office whenever it suits you.
  4. See the written offer. Everything is weighed, metal is XRF-assayed and any stones are assessed separately, usually on the working day your parcel arrives. You then get an itemised breakdown showing exactly how the figure was reached.
  5. Decide. Say yes and the money is sent by Faster Payments. Say no and your items come straight back, free and tracked.

Your parcel is signed for on arrival and opened at our Bristol office, where each item is weighed and XRF-tested before the written offer is prepared.

How your parcel travels

Your items travel on Royal Mail Special Delivery Guaranteed, fully tracked and signed for on delivery. Royal Mail cover may be available up to £2,500 depending on the postal method and cover level used. GoldPaid can confirm the appropriate postal option before you post. If your items may be worth more, message us first and we can split them across more than one prepaid label at no charge. See postage and cover for the full picture. If a parcel is lost on its way to us, the compensation claim goes to Royal Mail from you, the sender, using your Post Office receipt, and we give you our tracking records and help you make it. Lost parcels, step by step.

If the offer is not for you

Then nothing happens except a free return. We send your items back by tracked, signed-for post at our cost, with no fee for declining and no follow-up. A valuation is only worth having if you can turn it down freely, so you can. See what happens if I decline the offer.

The written offer is dated and holds for a limited time, because metal prices move. If it lapses before you decide, we re-run it against the live precious-metal market on the day, at no charge. You can also accept part of a parcel and decline the rest, with no minimum and no penalty for splitting it.

Being paid

If you accept, we aim to pay by Faster Payments within one working hour of your acceptance, directly to your bank account. It is the last step, and a simple one.

Why sell to GoldPaid

GoldPaid is a small, owner-run UK business built on one promise: show the working. Every item is weighed and XRF-assayed, and every offer is itemised in writing. Postage is free and tracked both ways, and there is never a countdown or a hard sell. If something is worth more to a specialist than to us, we say so.

What decides your offer

Every parcel is opened at our Bristol office and each piece is handled on its own. Nothing is averaged across the parcel.

  1. Weight. Each item is weighed on scales. Stones, steel springs, non-gold clasps and cores are not paid as gold. The written breakdown explains the payable metal weight for each item, rather than treating everything on the scales as precious metal.
  2. Purity. Each item is tested with an XRF analyser, which reads the metals at the points tested without marking the item. A surface reading alone cannot establish the composition of a plated or filled piece. Hallmarks, construction and different components all need to be considered alongside the test.
  3. The market on the day. Gold and silver are priced against the live precious-metal market at the time your parcel is assessed, not at the time you posted.
  4. Condition and intact value. Broken is fine and does not reduce a metal offer. Where a piece is worth more intact (a named maker, a collectable coin, a locket with provenance) we tell you before testing, so you can choose.
  5. Anything that is not gold or silver. Plated, rolled-gold and base-metal items are listed on the offer at nothing and returned to you free. We never quietly keep them.

Why we do not publish a per-gram price list. A single printed rate hides the things that change the figure: hollow versus solid, stones, mixed carats in one bag, a mark that does not match the metal. We would rather show you the weight, the tested purity and the figure for each item, in writing, and let you decide. Final offers depend on inspection, item weight, purity, hallmarks, stones, non-gold components, condition and the live precious-metal market.

What you see before you decide. A written, itemised offer by WhatsApp or email: every item, its weight, its tested purity, and its figure. Accept and we aim to pay by bank transfer within one working hour. Decline and the whole parcel comes back by Royal Mail Special Delivery at our cost. No fee, no deduction, no questions.

See a worked example on the how-we-value-gold page →

Common questions

Can the bank transfer reference be discreet?

Partly. We can set the payment reference to whatever you ask for, but the payer name on your statement will still show as GOLDPAID LTD. Tell us the reference you would like when you accept the offer.

Will my ex see anything on a shared bank account?

That is a matter for your bank and your account access, not ours. Many people use a personal account in their sole name for the transfer; we can pay to whichever UK account you provide.

Can I sell only the gold and keep the diamond?

Yes. If you would like to keep the stone, we can remove it before melt and return it to you with the bank transfer. Note this on your acceptance reply.

How long can the offer stay open before I have to decide?

The written offer is dated and holds for a limited time, because metal prices move. If it lapses before you decide, ask and the figure is re-run against the current market. Nobody chases you in the meantime.

Will my details be shared with anyone?

No, beyond the photo ID GoldPaid asks every seller for. We do not share data with marketers, third parties or any other buyer.

Not the question you had? The full GoldPaid FAQ covers the rest, from postal cover and ID checks to what happens if you decline the offer.

Speak to us before you post

Please send us photos on WhatsApp, and we will help you. We give a rough estimate where possible and arrange postage with you after our conversation. Your final offer follows inspection.

Prepaid label, free tracked return

Send a photo first. Decide later.

Message us with a clear photo of your items on WhatsApp, or call. There is no obligation at any stage and the only commitment is your decision to accept a written offer once you have seen it.

We give rough estimates where possible; your final offer follows inspection. We arrange postage with you after our conversation.

No obligation. Free tracked return if you decline. We aim to pay within one working hour of acceptance.